Big Girls Don't Cry, They Cut Themselves

Dear Girls,

You may look in the mirror and find someone you really do not know. One day, your hands are going to look weird on you, your eyes don't tell the truth anymore and you're going to start to feel empty. That one particular day, you will feel the need to find yourself again and try things you never thought of doing before. That one day, your friends won't be around nor will your family. You will start telling yourself that you deserve to die and people around deserve to let you go. You'd end up considering hurting yourself because in your twisted little mind, it makes sense to punish yourself. You'll start thinking that if you don't hurt yourself, you'll hurt people around you even more. Well, at that very moment you arewrong.

Life is hard for everyone and in any position in life. Don't for one second think that you have the hardest life to live. Remember when you think you're living a bad life, someone somewhere around the world was hoping for your life. Don't get me wrong. I complain about life too. I mean who doesn't? But in any circumstances have i never ever considered picking up a blade and slicing it through my skin. I hope that you won't ever need to either.

We all have lost our respects to our own bodies. We lost respect to our own minds. We lost respect to ourselves. This is normally due to change. Changes in our mood, surroundings, friends, family etc. When someone goes through a phase or a change in life, we often do not know how to control or go through it. I never knew how to go through change. I still struggle finding myself through the darkest of times. Change is normal and in fact is healthy. Even the bad ones bring positive outcome. See things as it'll get better not nothing ever changes.

"We are beautiful in our own ways whether it be inside or out.
We are brilliant in our own ways whether it be in silence or out loud.
We are magnificent in someone's eye whether it be someone we know or not.
We have love to give whether it be a little or a lot."


Don't let anybody tell you otherwise.